I've been writing to Ramona for a while, and from our very first letter we always "clicked." While I love all my penpals, like all friendships each one has grown differently from the rest. Ramona and I have very similar writing styles and like to write long, chatty letters (and include lots of "extras"), so we've always gotten along well--at least on paper.
When I told Ramona the dates I would be in Germany, she invited me to meet up with her and a friend in Berlin. They were planning a trip for part of the time I would be in Germany, and it sounded like a great opportunity to see another German city that wasn't originally on my itinerary.
Before I left the US, the plan was to go from Prague to Berlin, then to Stuttgart to meet another penpal of mine. After Prague was canceled, on my first full day in Germany, I posted photos of my day in Nuremberg. You can imagine my surprise when Ramona commented that she would be there on Friday.
As it turns out, Ramona lives only about 20 minutes from Nuremberg, and since she was on her semester break she offered to not only spend the day showing me Bamberg (where she attends university), but also to pick me up in Nuremberg, let me stay at her parent's house for the night, and escort me to the bus to Berlin the next day. She helped find me an inexpensive bus ticket direct to Berlin and absolutely went out of her way to make sure I felt welcomed and had a nice day.
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| Me with my wonderful penpal Ramona |
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| Bamberg's City Hall is situated in the middle of a river |
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| One of the many narrow, winding streets |
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| The Dom Cathedral. It contains the only papal grave outside of Italy or France |
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| A courtyard where a fight scene from the Three Musketeers was filmed |
After finishing our tour, we met up with one of Ramona's friends, Jenni, at a restaurant near their school. Over a delicious lunch we talked about American stereotypes, idioms and Tchibo. I crushed Ramona's world view when I explained Americans are ashamed to admit if they like McDonalds. They taught me some German idioms, and I confirmed that "I understand only train station" is an actual expression in German. We pondered why, in English, you say you're on cloud nine if you're extremely happy, whereas in German you're on cloud seven. It was a great meal with great friends and while I was sitting there I realized this is why people travel.
This is why people spend hours on cramped flights and trains, forgoing sleep and familiarity. This is why traveling is worth it. All it takes is one beautiful city, one good meal, and one welcoming friend.
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| A former monastery |
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| The view of Bamberg from the monastery garden |
By the time we reached the train station, I was already yawning. After two more train rides and a drive through the country we arrived at Ramona's house, in a small village of about 100 people.
Although her parents spoke very little English, they could have not been more welcoming. Neither of them stopped smiling the whole time I was there. Who said Germans are unfriendly?
My experience meeting Ramona will definitely remain a highlight of my trip, I'm sure. And the good news is I get to spend a few more days sight seeing with her in Berlin! I'm already looking forward to getting together with her again soon.































